How to break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend

Before you read this, decide how serious you are about breaking up. If you are just toggling then you probably should at least attempt to keep your relationship alive. Search for help, get your freinds involved in your relationship, and see if things can be fixed. Do not act out of anger, and most importantly think and rethink every step you take from here on out. If you are reading this there are abviosly problems in your relationship, do not let the problems consume you, but also dont ignore the problems.
That being said here goes:
Their is no clear and easy way to break up with anyone, but one thing is certain, if it should be done, it should be done. What I mean by that is simple, if you feel like you are no longer progressing in the relationship, if you feel like you have given this relationship your all and there simply is no way it is going to work, then there is only one thing left to do, break up.
Now dont get over anxious and drop the news on your spouse out of no where. You need to build up the news.

First step, begin by accepting the fact that your relationship is not working. This first step is key because many times your spouse will try and convince you that you should stay with them, and if you have not fully accepted the fact that you will no longer be with this person, then you might just believe them.

Second step, is to make it abvious that you are unhappy, begin to show your feelings, do not bottle up how you feel anymore. If you keep hiding your true opinion of your spouse they might just think that you are truly happy and then when you break the news to them, they might just feel like you are dropping a bomb on them.

Third step, let your partner know that you do not feel that it is wise to continue dating eachother. Let them know exactly what you think, do not hold back. It is important to let them know why you are breaking up, because if you dont they will remain shocked and will not give up untill you either give them the heartbreaking truth or get back together with them.